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writes:Ok, I have this small problem and I have posted other questions on this site and it has always helped me.I was seeing someone for 4 years. I ended it with him 3 weeks ago because we went on holiday and it was good but when we returned, he was being very nasty with me. He never turned up when he said he was coming to see me, he turned very manipulative and kept on playing mind games with me and saying "you don't have the guts to dump me", so in the end I finished with him.For 3 weeks after that, he tried to get me back by helping my family, when I was out, he would constantly be trying to talk to me, saying he loved me and missed me. However, I went out the other night and he was there and he completely ignored me, then he was snogging loads of girls in front of me and then came up to me saying he really liked this other girl and wants to ask her out. He was yelling this at me. He then ended up barging into my house and punching the wall and saying he just wanted to have "sex" with me. He was completely drunk when saying all this. Then the next day, I made him come and fix the wall. He said again, he wants to have "1 last time" with me, which I replied no. The thing is though, he is a nice person when he isn't drunk, but I don't know what to think. Is he trying another tactic to get me back? I tried to be friends with him but he can't. Please help, I am so confused and upset all the time and really don't want all this aggro.Many thanks
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (6 September 2009):
 This dude is a freaking nutbar and not worth your time or friendship.
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reader, wherestheinstructions? +, writes (5 September 2009):
If you're upset because of this guy, then he doesn't deserve you, and you deserve better.
Dump him, change the locks and move on to someone nicer - but give yourself a break first and avoid love on the rebound.
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