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Is he the type that he doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me?

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Question - (4 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so i was messing with someone for awhile and I started falling in love with this kid but he never told me how he really felt. Before he would tell me that he would date me at some point. He was great with me tho but then on the other hand it seemed like he was just playing games and at the time i didnt care because of how i felt for him. But if i was to hang out with another guy friend he would be mad at me and think im messing with them or something. He would get mad if i dont call him or text him anymore like i use to. But i just recently started dating someone else and said ok ill leave u alone then. I asked him why would he if he told me before that "we're just friends". He came back with a response something like "it doesnt matter how i feel" and he wouldnt tell me. Ive tried so hard for this kid for months and got nothing .. Is he the type that if he dont want me he dont want anyone else to have me?

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A female reader, Misscarolinelou United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2011):

Misscarolinelou agony auntHello , first take a deep breath boys are just always hard to deal with. This Boy seemed to make you happy , but if you felt as if he didnt care about you he could be

-Embarressed about how you feel

-Worried that you might not like him

-Awkard because he hasnt had this kind of situation before

the getting mad if you dont call him bit sounds like he does like you but worried that you might find someone else.

However you should calmly explain that its overcontroling and you feel unfortable with it

Because you have started to date someone else he feels rejected that you choose someone else i think he lied at the fact he wanted to be just friends.

Good luck

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