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female
age
30-35,
*earbear
writes:Ahh what do i do?! I simply cannot get this guy out of my head.. it's a major, major crush. I sort of get the feeling he likes me.. but I keep rejecting him because I think he's kidding.. and the fact that he always flirts with me infront of his friends and my friends so I feel I can't say much back without my friends saying 'YOU BLATANTLY LIKE HIM!' and then making fun of me.I used to like him about a year ago, but he didn't like me back so I moved on.. now he's really interested in me, touching my hands and hair, calling me lovey dovey names like 'babe' and 'darling' and staring at me when i'm working.. he even said he loves me (can someone casually tell you they love you without it meaning anything? he said it like 4 times today, I think he was expecting me to say it back but I didn't.) Basically I need help, is he joking? is he testing me to see if I fancy him or does he truly fancy me? and if he does? how do I stop rejecting him?! It's like I have a banner up saying 'you're a guy, please leave me alone before you crush my heart!' Please help :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Awww, he knows you like him and he's enjoying all the attention you give him and yeah, he's ain't serious. Keep your chin up and one day soon there will be a guy who really likes you who won't break your heart.
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (21 March 2010):
 I would talk to him because only he knows the reason for why he's saying this stuff and behaving this way towards you and before you do anything or lay yourself on the line you need to know he is actually meaning what he's saying and not just doing it in a casual, friendly kind of way.
Other than that I would maybe try a little flirting back, show a little interest that way its in a harmless way if he is only being casual but its also enough for him to take another step if he's being serious.
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