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writes:My partner and I had a pregnancy "scare" for want of a better term!!! We decided that we were ready to start trying for a baby in a few months so I have come off birth control pills since last week. We agreed that we would not try and not prevent for the time being! It's strange though, my SO has been coming onto me every night for the past 4 nights for sex (which I'm happy about as I havve a high sex drive) .. normally I do the instigating and get it once a week! I'm fascinated by how people work. Is he subconsciously trying to impregnate me and make sure his swimmers work haha! ? I'm happy to get pregnant now it was his idea to wait a few months!
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (29 December 2014):
Men aren’t that complicated. He wants to have sex, that’s it. Perhaps he’s happy that what will be will be in terms of when you get pregnant, but he’s not trying to do anything subconsciously. He wants sex and is presumably content that pregnancy may be the result. Maybe he’s on his Christmas holidays and less stress means he’s more in the mood. Maybe he thinks you want it more, or maybe he’s just trying to make more of an effort to initiate things. Don’t look for things that aren’t there and just enjoy yourselves.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Fari +, writes (27 December 2014):
 No, he is really trying to impregnante you. I mean, that is what the both of you agreed to right??
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (26 December 2014):
 If you're trying for a baby, then it isn't subconscious. It's CONSCIOUS. There's a higher chance the more sex you have. If you hadn't wanted to try for a baby until a few months from now, then you should stay on birth control UNTIL a few months from now. Otherwise, you're trying NOW.
You probably are giving off more pheromones since being off of the pill. Your hormones have changed, so his sex drive is probably responding to that, but that is a theory. You're giving off "mating" chemicals.
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