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Is he stringing me along with all his talk about being scared of commitment?

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Question - (1 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, ******love******* writes:

we talk about almost everything and we get along really well. weve been together for about10 mths and he wont come to my house as i live with my parents and he doesent feel ready.

i feel like were best friends and i love him in that way.

im so confused....

he says hes not ready for a serious relationship and hes scared cos hes never met anyone that he gets along with this well.

he says normally when hes in a relationship with a girl he gets an urge to cheat if he sees a girl he likes or gets the opportunity, but since we been together he hasent had that urge.

but he said this a week after i decied that its best for us to be friends as he has ''comitment issuse''.

i dont know what to think...help me is he stringing me along.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008):

yes!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2008):

He has strung you along but now he's been honest and said he can't be with you.

If you think you can be friends with him and get over him then take him at that and do it.

If you think you will struggle then tell him you need to cut contact for a while so you can get over him.

Good Luck!! xx

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