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writes:Will online relationship work?This may sounds childish or ridiculous but I hope someone can advice me because I am getting confused.I met a girl online. I know her for few years. We have great time chatting online. Until she went vacation, that is the time I miss her. I know I am in trouble because I don't believe online relationship will work.I am blinded by love. When she is back, we 'started' our relationship. At first, she assured me a lot, that nothing can stop us.I treat her as a real life gf. I never cheat and I always tell her the truth. We do fight from time to time. She break up with me twice and we get back together after few weeks.It has been a year now. We are living in different countries. It is not easy for me to go there. I will go to meet her in 3 years time. But she never shows her effort to come to me. We haven't meet in person. We know how each other look from web cam and we do talk to each other on phone.Now that I felt the way she treat me changed. She no longer wait for me online. She rarely called me. When I called her, sometimes she will just hang up. When I called back, she will say someone talking to her or call her.How do I know if she loves me for real? I feel like I am something that she used to fill in her free time. However, when we talked on phone, she is so excited and have lots of story to tell. I am so confused.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 No no no no*takes deep breath*internet dating does NOT work. EVER.you won't meet her in 3 years.and it won't work out. you live in different countries. the only way to be together is to marry and even that doesn't seal it.Move on. online dating will not work unless she lives down the street from you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 August 2008):
It sounds like her love may be fading and you have to continue treating her as a real girlfriend and if it's not working out or she's changed then you need to talk to her about it and possibly split up.
Good Luck!! xx
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