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writes:okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, and I want to know if he is actually taking this seriously...I'm always the one to call him, which isn't very often, I always propose we go on dates, and I'm always the one to make the first move...is he shy or just not into me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell this certainly makes things a whole lot better....I am his first girl friend, first kiss, crush etc. I will be going out with him tomorrow night so I'll be sure to talk to him then. thank you so much for the advice!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): Has he had any other girlfriends before you? If not, then he might just not have the slightest idea what dating is all about and doesn't know what to do. As everyone has said, talk to him to see if he wants to continue to date you. I'm sorry that I don't know how to actually start the conversation other than just tell him that it would be nice if he would ask you out for a change. Be nice, but make sure he knows that you are serious. When I was in my teens, I was very shy and had a hard time asking girls for a date. I just didn't have a clue how to correctly ask until at least 17.
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Did you talk to him about it? Even though he could be shy, after 3 months you should be able to talk about these things. Ask him to go somewhere with you where you can talk without others around, and tell him how you feel. If he wants to date you he should understand that you will want him to take some initiates too. Make him understand this and then hopefully you will see if he is serious about it or not.
Best wishes, tell us how it goes.
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reader, siren1  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 hi most guys find it hard to open up so your not on your own, try talking to him and tell him what you want and also what he wants out of the relationship otherwise it wont go anywhere, so try and bring him out of his shell hes probably just a bit on the shy side, if hes not interested in talking about it then hes not the guy for you, so get talking and let us all know how you get on!good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice...really helpful!! =]
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reader, LovePro +, writes (8 November 2007):
He's probably shy. Most boys don't know what's the right thing to do. You should probably talk to him about it, ask him whether he's bored of you and just doesnt want to tell you because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Or whether he is shy and unsure about whether he should make the first move in arranging dates and calling you.Good Luck!=]
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (8 November 2007):
 It sounds like he's not taking it seriously. You need to talk to him and find out whats up.
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