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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Is he really ready for commitment.We've been engaged since 2005 and are living together, we've got a 9month old girl.He always go out at night every weekend and come back home in the morning. If you talk to him regarding the matter, he will admit he was wrong and never apologise. He will then carry on the next week or day after you spoke to him, he will then tell you bad it feels for him to go out at night. He doesn't show any sign of remorse yet expect to be respected.He's got a number of bad friends, mostly younger than himself and not commited. you will find some female hair piece in his car, lipglauses and sunglasses. If you ask him, he will tell you that it's from friends, they had a trip and left them in his car.If you lay a complain about his deeds will listen, yet tell you lies in response. If you confront your family for advise, he gets very angry that you are telling your family instead of him. The question is: what's the point of talking to someone knowing that you will never get the truth in return? What does one do in a situation like this. Is a relationship like this worth it or can one just move on with their lives.
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (28 March 2008):
 Ditch him; he's a cheater and has issues. Get child support and move on with your life. You don't deserve that kind of mental abuse, honey. LIfe's too short.
Get responsible, find a job (unless you already are working)and tell him to take a hike--you ain't taking that crap anymore. (Boy, I've heard stories, but this one takes the cake!)
Gena
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