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writes:I like this guy that is a Scorpio... I'm 22 and he's 18 and he does things that show he likes me, then when I actually get the courage to talk to him, he kind of pushes me away kind of acts rude, he was smiling while talking to me but acting somewhat rude but to me I felt he was saying those things out of being upset at something so I wasn't convinced that he really wanted me to go away. There might be a big possibility that he was jealous of my male friend that was with me a lot at school this quarter. So I'm not sure if he is testing me to see how much I like him, or is he really trying to forget me? He was showing huge interest in me and then stopped..I'm not even sure of what I did wrong..His friends are always watching me especially when i'm with a male friend. All of his friends know that I like him, and he gets jealous of me with male friends and he knows I get jealous when he is with another female friend....I don't get what the problem is...if he is hesitating, what is it about..I'm not sure..or is the whole purpose to see how much I like him? or to see how much I can take from him? So I guess its like we were sort of playing cat and mouse the whole school quarter, but actually I just think we both have a hard time approaching each other, so when it gets to the last day of school i finally get the courage to talk to him then he pushes me away, I don't really understand what happened, and there is no doubt in my mind that he didn't like me, especially his friends watching my moves and glaring at my male friend...I guess I'm just hoping he would come back because I really don't feel that I have done anything wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Mmmm.... this guy is too young for you! I read somewhere that guys are 3years younger mentally than girls.... so what you are dealing with is a "15" yr old....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): negging is actually more like a backhanded compliment - for example "Those are some really awkward shoes, they show off your originality." or whatever. It seems more like he has self esteem issues about dominance, he doesn't make the move on you(because he isn't interested) but he hates the fact that your possibly losing interest in him by talking to other guys. Either way I agree with satindesire you should stay away from him since he is a tool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): He is too young for you, and he probably doesn't understand your attention or even wants it. Guys don't act rude to girls they are trying to get to like them. I say move on and forget him and go after a guy your own age and in your own stage of life.
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