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writes: i had a bf who i stayed with for a month supposedly we broke up because he was going to iraq becasue thats his job being in the army we eventually got back together when he was on his leave he found out i was flirting with his mate when he was away in iraq i sed to him it was for a joke and i wud love to be back with him he says to my mates he wont be back with me and he doesn't believe one thing i say. i say i can prove to you i wont do it again i love you soo much he jsut doesn't believe me well atleast i think he doesn't. but recently he has been flirting with me saying he wants sex and he still has feelings for me.is he playing with me and trying to mess my head up or does he still like me and will he get back with me after the next 4 and half months after iraq?
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reader, camille  +, writes (30 June 2006):
 Who's playing who? You've been flirting with his mate. Seriously, what do you expect? A joke? Not a very funny one for anyone let alone someone who's away in a terrible situation. Of course he wants sex when he's back on leave. Earn his respect by not flirting with his friends behind his back and keep your self respect by not 'putting out' 'til you have earned that trust back. I have no crystal ball, but when he gets back, if he still doesn't trust you and hears the same story, I'd guess he won't bother with you. I'm sorry to be brutal, but you ask if he's playing with your head, just think about what you've done to his. He's thousands of miles away from you, family and friends, he needs you to be loyal and supportive.
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