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*ilagros18
writes:hey people, well me and my "ex boyfriend"...i say it like that because i don't i know if were together still. We've been friends for months already and when we were friends we kissed two times on different occasions. A little after he asked me out.. I was very attracted to him but so that's why i said yes i do want to be with you. Ok so in one month of being together i got so attached to him, but we would fight al ot either because he had pictures of his friends that are girls or him going to my friends house when we would break up. We broke up four times in one month. The first three well i dumped him because of him not coming when he said he would. All the first three times we've broken up we've gotten together the next day or day after. He denied he was with me once and i did break up with him, but he told me sorry and begged me. So i gave him another chance. The last time time i broke up with him i really insulted him and cuzzed at him in all names you can think of. I regret it after but it was too late. He didn't wana get back with me after , i would beg him to forgive me and move on he didn't want to be with me, he suggested to be friends. So for three months we were friends. Then the last week of december he asked me out and i was very shocked but asked him are you sure he said yeah so i got with him. I felt very awkward though like if he's not being truthful to me or his words aren't really what he means. Ok so we got back together and four days after we were together he doesn'treally call or text me. On new years he didn't even see me. And the day after i called him in the night becuse when he said he was going to call he didn't so i did he didn't answer my texts or call. So i left it like that. One week later he texts me what you doing? I didnt text back i just erase the text. A week after that he text me hi.. I did reply hi back and we texted a few things. Later that day called him, we talked for an hour, i asked him why did he act like that and why didn't he anwer my calls he would just say im sorry im a dumbass im so dumb it's my fault im an idiot. I asked him did i do anything wrong he said no no its me im a dumbass. Ok so the next day he text again after work and later that night he send a song it wasn't romantic but the he knows i like that group. I called him we talk for an hour and making jokes. And talking about the past. He hangs up telling me good nite, we'll talk tomorow im sleppy i said ok bye. Today comes and he don't call or text. Im like wondering what's up with him? The thing is im a fat girl. He's attractive and average. I think he likes me but is embarassed of my weight . Since i met him ive' gained like forty pounds. Maybe thats the problem. A young 19 year old guy wants a young attractive girl but i don't know. What do you guys think? Should i move on, or what is the problem with us? Why does he act confused ? Does he want to be with me or just playing games? Please please help.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 What a mess. You guys make up to break up, and you don't even know if you're together or not! How confusing is this relationship!
The problem is you guys don't click together. You have some insecurities such as the pictures of his friends that happen to be girls. Do you not have any male friends? There's major trust issues, and you two barely know each other! You haven't had a chance because you're always fighting and then breaking up.
Your weight has nothing to do with this, and I'm betting that you gained that 40 pounds because this fighting, breaking up stresses you out like no other. Stress causes weight gain.
He's playing games with you, and everything that he does wrong you dump him over it. You guys just aren't meant to be..move on. Then you will drop 40 pounds and find a guy who is worth being in a relationship with.
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reader, cry +, writes (21 January 2011):
 girl get on with ur life move on forgette him you deserve better and there is better alot better out there . seriosuley break it off with him throw away his number and go out with some one else,you sound dramatic.and controlling.best of luck
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