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writes:could it be that when your boyfriend goes down on you and is even willing to try cunnilingus even when you try to pull his head away - is it a sign that he loves you?i have had a couple of disappointements with men and i need a sign to show me that this one is not playing games.could there be any other signs that help me know if he is playing games with me and not being true? please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 Cunnilingus has NOTHING to do with love.. some men just like to eat pussy… I love to give blow jobs and I’ve given them to men I like but don’t love when not in a committed relationship… granted it’s better when I love the guy… but still SEX is not about love…
If you are not sure if he loves you, then he probably does not.
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reader, Relationship.Chef +, writes (10 February 2012):
 Umm, have you tried to TALK?
So many people try to guess "what is going on", "what is he thinking", and, every single time they guess wrong.
Instead of playing "the magic 8 ball", and wondering what is happening inside his head, simply ask the man.
If he answers coherently, then, you have your answers.
If he gives you an answer that leaves you still wondering, then, yes, he's playing games.
Life is so much easier when you simplify it, isn't it?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 I don't see what cunnilings has got to do with love- in fact, as for me, if you push his head away and he persists, I'd take it as a sign a) that he is not good at all with non verbal commnication and he needs things spelled out for him or b) that he's a selfish lover who wants what he wants when he wants it , and screw your opinion.
If you have to ask yourself if he's playing games... he probably is. People who love you act in a simple, clear, CONSISTENT way that leaves no space to doubts.
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