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anonymous
writes:He says he wants us to just be friends as there is alot of baggage between us on either side, so i agreed not really wanting to as i like him alot, but we still text, email loads and he said he wants to meet me for a drink next week before i go on holiday.....can this work? or you think he is messing me about? Maybe he thought i would kick of more of a fuss and realised im a good girl and would treat him right!
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (28 May 2009):
 if your interested to see what may happen go. you know him better than us we are only going by what you says and as the for ANON could be right perhaps he wants friends with benefits. just becareful he has made his stance on the matter and i doubt its gonna change. focus on you right now and your holiday. good luck aphex xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): Well, it's not because he wants to be more than friends either but I'm sure he wouldn't mind FWB- that's what this sounds like so be careful. If you have feelings for him, don't get into this arrangement. Sex won't make him your boyfriend again. He probably feels like he just hit the jackpot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah but we was meeting before for drinks but kissing etc, we have both admitted we fancy each other, so meeting for drinks i cant see how it would be just as mates!
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (28 May 2009):
when posting its best to give as much info as possible since their is very little. he wants to be friends dont friends meet for drinks ? perhaps he wants to wish you a fare well he know where you stand on this so if he wants something he will tell you other than that go live your happy life and look for someone else. if he doesnt want more then unless he changes his own mind nothing else will happen. good luck with your holiday chill out aphex xx
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