A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,I recently have gotten out of a bad relationship with my ex after he caused me physical and mental abuse. We have been separated for almost 6 months now and were together for almost a year. He became very close with my best frinds husband who I have known for the past 10 years. After I told my friend and her husband why we called it off, they decided it was a good idea not to talk to my ex any more. For me I hope never to see him or talk to my ex ever again. A month ago my friend and her husband split up for the same reasons that me and my ex did. Her husband was a little more brutal and sent her to the hospital with a broken nose. When I asked her what happened she lied to me and stood up for her husband she still is in love with him even though they are not exclusivly dating. (I dont think they wil ever separate no matter how much harm he causes her) I have tried to help her but she cant even bother to tell her best friend the truth any more.My problem is that her husband called me the other day which is rather unusual, he also asked me a lot of strange questions like who do I live with, and a few questions that might consern my ex.Is her husband still talking to my ex? Is he giving my ex the info he would need to stalk me or worse? How can I be sure?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 Oh boy I would distance yourself from this couple if I were you. I just don't think any good can come of this friendship. Tell your girlfriend that you will always be there for her if she chooses to leave this man but that you can not remain friends with them as a couple because of the situation she is choosing to place herself in. Then back off very fast.
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