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writes:I met a fellow through mutual friends three weeks ago. We instantly hit it off. He is going through a divorce and has two children and I myself just got out of a four-year relationship. Anyhoo, he asked me out to dinner and from that point on we have been spending most of our free time together. He asked me to go on a ski trip with him for New Years and decided I would go with him. I made to hotel reservations. My point is, it seems as though he really enjoys my company. However, the last few days he has been distancing himself from me and last night he didn't call me. Is he losing interest or am I just being over sensitive?
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reader, kenny  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 I don't think its really been long enough to say he has dismissed you, it was only last night he never called. I would give him the benefit of the doubt, he has 2 children and is going through a divorce so things can't be that easy for him at the moment. If he was not interested he would not have asked you on this ski trip, and let you book the resevations. Don't come on too strong and risk jeopodising what you have here, as i said he is going through a divorce and you have just come out of a 4 year relationship. Take it nice and slow, and let things materialise slowly and naturally at a pace you are both comfortable with.
Good luck, and merry christmas x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Well you mention that you guys spend all of your free time together. But clearly not alot is actually going on in that free time if you don't even know how he feels. So what exactly do you guys talk about in your free time? Do you guys talk?? What does he say?? Do you guys have fun together??
How do you spend so much time with him and not know how he feels??
I don't know if he is losing interest in you but when you spend alot of time like that with a person you should know how they feel about you.
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