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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm starting to fall, HARD, for a guy i've just recently gotten to know (i've hung out with him a few times over the past few months, always with other friends). Trouble is, I barely know him. He seems like an amazingly sweet, stand up guy; and he's extremely easy on the eyes to boot. He flirts with me every time we're together ( and not subtly either; picking my out a room of people to talk to, flirt with, etc -link at bottom of this thread to another question with detailed flirting)... these are the reasons i'm falling for him, they are also the reasons I am questioning things.He told 2 of his really good friends he thought i was gorgeous!! i later found this out from one of my friends, who is dating one the friends he told... knowing this gave me hope; never before has I guy I thought was good looking, thought I was as well (or at least none to my knowledge). But I am not usually the type guys go for... I'm 19, curvy, average/pretty, but always guys' friend and never gf (i've dated 2 guys my whole life). That being said, I am kind of skeptical about any guy who pays a lot of attention to me, cause i'm not used to it i suppose. I know there is someone out there for everyone, but to put it bluntly he's hot and could have anyone, why me. A common theme of questions keep running through my head...-is he just playing with me? is it possible he doesn't actually like me, but rather likes me liking him so he plays on it, teases me, to inflate his own ego. - does he just want something from me? (I'm a virgin, and I'm 99% sure he knows that)- OR, is it possible this guys really, truly, likes me for me? ... =)Dear Aunts, please help me understand this guy. I'm lost... xo( previous question I asked, detailed flirting descriptions w/o embellishment: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-this-mean-could-he-be-interested.html )
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm not the type of girl who goes crazy over a guy... falling hard for me is liking a guy a lot & being able to see myself with him, but i could live without him. obsessed isn't my style.
I'm pretty old fashioned when it comes to dating and stuff, so i've been giving him pretty obvious hints that I like him... letting him know if he does ask me out i wouldn't say no.
I don't wanna put myself so far out there as to ask him out, only to find he doesn't like me "like that"; rejection isn't my strong suit.
I have a pretty good idea he likes me, but I wanna get everyone else's opinions before I hint any harder lol.
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