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writes: hey for 3 nights running i've been with the lad i like. Huggin, holding hands and tonight we kissed , the problem is his friends just said to me that ''his love of his life goes with someone else'' whom he used to go with.Is he using me to get over her ?Help, i dont want to be used again :( x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): Dear Poster
I suggest you take it very easy and very slow; don't get to emotionally involved yet; give it time; talk to him and tell him you prefer to take things slow and get to know each other better. If he likes you he will respect your wishes; if he does not respect your wishes DUMP him; find somebody that will take respect your wishes and whom you will feel confident is with you because he wants to be with you.
Have lots of friends but be selective in whom you date.
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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