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Is he just using me for sex? More help needed please.

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Question - (6 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I asked "Does he just want me for sexual activities?"

But didn't give enough information.

I'm 15.

We don't speak in school.

But we go out often outside of school, often with two of his mates and a couple of mine.

I think he clocked on that I like him, just by the way I act, towards him compared to how I act towards other male friends.

He doesn’t have a history of using girls but he has had a number of girl friends and I know that he has done little things, I’m not saying that he wants me for sex but oral and four play.

When we sit together he will always have his hands on me somewhere, like my front or down the back of my pants or somewhere.

But he’s so nice and I want to be with him. And I suppose if we were together I don’t think I would mind. Things I’ve done before I haven’t enjoyed but I wouldn’t mind if it was making me happy as long as he respected me and wasn’t just using me for that.

Now what do you think?

Sorry if it’s long but people did say I didn’t write enough.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007):

i think if e really liked u then e wouldnt push u in2 anything. I know that sounds like a really big cliché but honest, its true. Good luck hun xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007):

I'm afraid he just wants you for the sex. If he cared about you, he would care about you in school, too. You need to pay attention to what he does, not what he says. And he doesn't seem to respect you.

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