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female
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anonymous
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. For the first seven months, he tried to get me back but it just wasn't working. We hung out but it wasn't the same. So after we stopped talking, he hooked up with this so called friend of mine that sleeps with everyone. After that, he hooked up with this other girl that I was somewhat friends with. It seems like he is intentionally trying to befriend people that he only knew because of me. This summer, he "friended" even more girls I was friends with, and starts hanging out with them, and sleeping with one of them, (it was actually the slut he hooked up with in first place who I no longer talk to.) All this has made it awkward for me to hang out with any of these people, because its gross knowing they are or have slept with my ex. Why is he doing this? And I was extremely upset when he slept with the slutty friend, now it seems like he hangs out with her and has slept with her a few more times, even though all his friends make fun of him because she is so gross because she will sleep with anyone that asks, and everyone says she has stds. Is he trying to make me feel bad? A friend of his said "he doesn't care about anything anymore since he lost you", but if he ever thought I'd come back, I wouldn't think sleeping with gross girls would be the way to go. Should I ignore, confront, or what? It seems like he trying to make it uncomfortable for me to hang out with anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): Just ignore him and what he's doing - he's doing it deliberately because he's angry that you broke up with him and he's trying to upset you, not necessarily to make you jealous and want him back, but just to get you upset. If you react (ie confront him or the girls he's going after), he's 'won', if you don't, you keep your pride and dignity and the respect of all your friends. Don't let him take away your friends either - just ignore the fact he's either seeing them (or trying to see them) and if you like the girl, carry on being friends with her and just laugh off any conversation about him, just answer with "no, if you want to go out with him fine, I'm just glad it's not me anymore!" And if she's a good friend to you, then surely she would'nt want to go out with him anyway. Good luck with this and well done with getting rid of such a dropkick, you obviously deserve better!
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