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writes:Is he not right for me if we click, we always had chemistry but he recently broke up with his girl friend and we only talk once a week, we write to eachother....we still havent seen eachother in a year (since college) he says we shud meet up but it hasent happened yet, he told me he's been having a really hard time with the ex and other aspects of his life and that he wants to develop a good friendship, that he likes me but needs a while before getting into soemting else. Does that just mean he's not right for me, and that i should just move on or does that mean that i should explore my options but maybe he will be the one later on? Also, question for the guys, how often do you talk to a girl your interested in? is once a week good? i mean i agree w/the guy, we should really be friends before we start something and hes definitely not ready and i dont wana get into anything if he's not ready, so should i just drop this and move on or keep him around? We click so well, i love talking to him, hes the only guy i really have all kinds of chemistry with, physical, emotional, personality wise, its all there. We always liked each other even when he was with his girlfriend, but the fact taht we haven't met yet and we only talk once a week, are those bad signs?
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (6 August 2011):
 You're welcome. I'm here to help!And thanks for the compliment on my pointy-nose smiley face. :^)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks love doctor and i love the pointy nose smiley, good one!
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (4 August 2011):
Well speaking for myself (and I'm sure alot of guys), if I'm interested in a woman, I would like to speak to her more than once a week. But to comment on your situation...I think that he does like you...but not in the way that you think (at least not yet). His feelings for you may have not developed yet.1. I think he probably does have a lot going on with him which could be preventing him from getting in to a relationship with you (or anyone else for that matter) 2. I think that you should still explore other options, but keep him along as a friend. If you two really do click as you say, then you may be the best of friends. And of course the best case scenario is that it could be more than that. ;^)Hope this helps!
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