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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have recently become friendly with a guy who is my plumber. Yes he flirts and admitted that he likes the bigger bust. He has sent me a photo when he was drunk of his body with permisson and we have chatted from time to time and he has said that he hadn't done it for ages a few times. Last week when he was due to come and do some work he messaged me and asked if I would be on my own (ie no flatmate around) for some fun. I was surprised he said that as he backed off last time. I said I want sure and then he suddenly mentioned about having problems getting it up and that he would probably be a disappointment. I didn't ask why he was telling me this I was just amazed that he said it and I asked him if he was drunk again and he said no just horny. He then said he was going to send the photo he didn't dare send last time and I received it so seen all of his body so to speak. When he realised we may not be alone he left it at that and said it would probably take time to pluck up courage to go for it. He then set up a private chat with me even though we don't really speak on it. I am actually thinking that he is not really interested and just wanting some fun online as he would have done things a different way if he really liked me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2019): I had a plumber act that way when he came to my house, i think some men in some trades will just try their luck. He is sleazy and no doubt he does it with other women.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2019): He wants to stick his plunger in somewhere other than your toilet! Imagine all the usage and germs on that plunger!
Be smart! Find a real plumber!
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (3 May 2019):
 To many alarm bells ringing with this guy im sorry to say. I would advise blocking contact with this guy, and find yourself a new plumber while your at it.
trade's persons should not be using their proffesions to crack on with people, its just wrong.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 May 2019):
 I have to agree with N91,
He is testing to see how desperate you are. All he wants though it to hit it and move on.
Is he married by any chance?
If not, maybe his SLEAZY behavior is why.
Sending nudes to female costumers? Just lazy and sad. I want to be you are NOT the only one he has his horny eyes on. I can tell you this if ANY of the people we invite in to our home to FIX things pulled a SHIT stunt like that, I would NEVER use his and block is lam ass on top. How crass and uncouth not to mention UNPROFESSIONAL is that kind of behavior?! And how DESPERATE are you for sex or attention are you for even ENTERTAINING the thought of doing ANYTHING with this creeper?
And then the sob-story of having ED? Seriously? He tries to get sex but can't keep it up? Yeah, that sounds like a bum deal from the get go.
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reader, stanliwise  +, writes (2 May 2019):
 I think the plumber is looking for a fwb(friend with benefits). So it is up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2019): This guy has been around the block and has played the game many times before. He's a weak player at that. Pretty pathetic. And you'd be even more pathetic to chase after him. That's what he wants. He hopes you're desperate enough. You can be sure he's married or has a gf. He is also unprofessional and sneaky. I'd tell him I don't need ANY of his services!!
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reader, N91 +, writes (2 May 2019):
 If someone brings up sex before any kind of suggestion of a date it’s very clear what they’re after.
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