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writes:A few years ago i fell for this guy who i have known since primary school. Well we were friends and in my first year ( him 2nd year) of high school is when i fell for him and he started to give me signals that made me think that he likes me. We went on this trip with the Geography department and the whole trip we never took our eyes off each other. He found out i liked him a few months after and he started to ignore me. In May one of my best friends * Hannah sorted things out between me and him.He started going out with this girl.Now the complicated part.Its been about a week or two since we went back to school and during the Summer holidays i realised i still had feelings for him. My other best friend *Jaynah found out from his cousin that he loves me and that he does have some feelings for his girlfriend but he loves me more and that he is trying to get over me by going out with her and that it isnt working...I thought at first that maybe it was a game of chinese whispers but at school he keeps staring at me and he kinda hesitates and blushes slightly when i walk past. My friends keep noticing his actions aswell when im not looking in his directions and they tell me.But he is still going out with this girlIf i talk to him about it he will just deny it. HELP!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): Well he already has a girlfriend so he can't tell you he likes you. Can you Jaynah to give a big hint to his cousin that you really like him. It's just difficult, if you approach him, then you will seem like a girl that has stolen somebody's guy. He can't approach you untill he finnishes with his girlfriend. I would suggest ask Jaynah and his cousin to help out and pass him a message (private and confidential from you to him)
You could try giving him a note. Just something simple to say "Look I like you a lot, but I know your involved with somebody else, it's great that me and you are friends again, I hated it when we fell out". That should do the trick. You've told him, but you haven't made it to direct, if his girlfriend finds out, then what? You two are just good friends. The ball will be in his court. He will know you like him, and if he likes you, then he will have to leave his girlfriend and then come and talk to you... Hope this helped. I'm not good at this, because it's a long time since I left school. Goood luck, Blessings
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