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writes:There is a guy I flirt with at work all the time. At first I found him annoying, but now I think he's adorable. The day at work before my two week vacation (which I'm still on) we were talking a lot. I thought we were getting somewhere and figured we'd /text talk while I was gone.And then nothing. Silence. It's killing me.I was hoping something more would come from this... I'm scared to make the first move. I guess because I don't want to make things awkward and I don't want to seem clingy.Also I can never seem to make this guy come out when a few of us from work go to see a movie! I've invited him several times on several different occasions. Maybe I'm getting the wrong message and he's not into me like I'm into him...Any ideas? Can I say something discreet to him that won't make it seem like I'm DESPERATE to go out with him?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 June 2013):
 if you have asked him to go out with you in a group and he's not taking you up on it, then it's probable he's not as into you as you are into him.
FWIW just because a guy talks to you or flirts with you does not necessarily mean he wants more. I know I'm a mad flirt and a chatty cathy... but I'm happily married and would never consider cheating.. I'm just outgoing and friendly.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (17 June 2013):
While i fully understand where your coming from and its almost nearly impossibe not to do or say something.I would say thread with care and Wait until he makes the first move.Because if you made the first move and it did not work out you would be very hurt.Time will sort this out .Kind Wishes Nora B.
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