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Is he in love with me or her?

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Question - (16 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My bf and i were apart from eachoder but started calling me the day i finished writing my exams, and he declared his love for me that he still has feelings for me and we got back together. Lately, he's been asking me of my sis whom he saw her pics. i dont answer any question based on her. Did i do the right thing? It seems that he is determined to know her, he even asked me 2 give her number 2 him but i refused. Is he in love with me or her? He says he just wants her know her. Am i over-reacting?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2012):

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When we broke up, he didnt know my sis, we broke up because my parents didn't approve of it. But we'v been secretly dating. He told my friend he has one girl and thats me and he only loves me but lately he has been asking of my sis in France, he claims he wants to know her but when i refuse to answer he gets irritated(inside). The last time we were chatting he asked me about her then i refused to answer again and he never spoke to me since then. I get jealous when he asks of her. Did i do i right thing?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (17 May 2012):

janniepeg agony auntIt could be that you two broke up because he likes your sister. He declared his love for you only so that you won't accuse him, and he will still be in touch with you to get with your sister. He is timing it so that it won't look like he's quickly jumping ship. You are not overreacting. He is just pathetic to believe there is a possibility you would hand your innocent sister over to him. Don't talk to him anymore. He is only in love with himself.

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