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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and in the first 6 months it was great, but he wanted to have sex all the time, we have been living together for about 1 year now and i can barely get him to touch me except for cuddling which he loves to do, i will tell him my need for intimacy and he always tells me to use my "plastic" or i will get you a plastic man! I don't understand and it really hurts, i have asked him over and over why he says this and he just laughs. i have a gay friend that i talk with only on the phone because he lives in another state and my boyfriend tells me oh i'm ready for your gay friend, and then tells me he's joking, he tells me he loves me, needs me, constantly touching or holding my hand, tells me i'm beautiful but then when i try to get intimate he says i have to work honey i'm tired and then on rare moments of sex most of the time he does not have an orgasm or if he does it's within the first couple of minutes. Is he gay? i have ask, but he says no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Hmm well it seems to me that he's not gay. The joke about your friend was just a harmless comment to wind you up a little and make you laugh, but the sex issue is a whole different problem.. Have you tried tempting him into bed through sexy lingerie, or have you ever performed a lap dance for him? These things should turn him on a lot, and hopefully enough to make him just want to rip those clothes off you and jump into bed! Talk to him about the sex.. You've already asked if he was gay so surely asking about the sex should be nothing!! I would never hear the end of it if I asked my man if he was gay haha. So yes, talk to him, and if all else fails, follow the advice in this link!! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-for-women-on-taking-back-your-sexuality.html
Good luck :]
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