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female
age
36-40,
*ilmuma4
writes:I am 23, pregnant, engaged to a great man but I think he is cheating on me. He keeps his cell phone glued to his side and has been acting strange lately. I get the chanceo once in a while to look at his text messages and there is only one girl on there that I dont recognize who always ends her text messages with XOXO. I just cant figgure out when he would have the time to cheat. If hes not at work he is either at home or with our mutual friiends who would tell me if they knew of anything. He cant be leaving work early because he doesnt drive, works right accross the street and always leaves his schedule on our dresser. If he is being completely faithful I dont understand why he would be hiding this girl from me..and he goes way out of his way to hide her messages and stuff and Im so confused. Is he cheating or am I just really paranoid?
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reader, 2112EricYYZ +, writes (28 June 2008):
 no a better rout is to ask him who that girl is that hes texting dont just ask if hes cheating cuz most likely he would lie and say no (if he is cheating) just ask who the girl is if he gets reallly really defensive hes most likely cheating. and if he doesnt get defensive then just moniter the texts cell phones have to charge and when it does thats when u should check. and if the text says something like meet me somewere then i think u should drop by for a visit hope my advice works
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): Why not ask him, take the direct route and ask him if he's cheating on you with this girl or anybody else.
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