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Is he avoiding me? What should I do?

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Question - (20 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Well, I have a crush with a guy for the last 2 years in which we communicate by email since we met in person. I don't like to send a bunch of messages b/c he might think I'm clingy and stuff.

We talk on the phone once a month. We talked on Tuesday and I even asked him to send me a picture with his kids for xmas (he's divorced) He said he will and that he'll write me sooner. The thing is I send him some pictures the next day and it got relaying failure and went back. I send him from another account and no mail delivery failure came out.

Today, I sent him another one from my normal account and although a mail delivery failure was received he didn't replied. I don't know if he got it. I feel like he may got mad for so many attempts of emailing. Should I wait and call him before xmas or just wait for new years? What do you think I should do?

His kids are supposed to be visiting and I guess I'm the last of his priorities right now. We are long distance though, so.........

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008):

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Thanks he wrote to me today for christmas and we are great!

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A female reader, mzpretttykilla22 United States +, writes (20 December 2008):

mzpretttykilla22 agony auntMaybe since a long distance relationship; some people end up loosing attraction. Not to crush all your hopes, don't be scared to send a message it can be taken many ways including that your caring. 2 years is a very long time, best advice to you id follow your inner voice && always follow your heart. Even if it leads you in a bad direction you can always take it as a lesson. Best luck : ) things may get better. But honestly i don't think he is annoyed

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