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30-35,
*nna*belle
writes:I know I’m young, but I feel like I’ve lost the love of my life. My bf and I, of nearly 2 years, love(d) each other, but one day two months ago I had a fit and everything had become too much for me to handle at that point, so I broke up with him. I thought it would be just a few days of pause to think, but then too much time had passed and he tried to avoid his feelings for me, in fear of getting hurt again (which I completely understand). We did write each other a little bit, but then I tried to take a break and maybe he would take initiative to do something, but he didn’t, he’s never been the type to act first. Now we hardly ever talk/write. I don’t want to lose him again, but I don’t know what to do, or not do, and now the holidays are coming and I fear losing him for good, if in all the holiday cheers he forgets me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): girl i know its hard to do i had to deel with it to but you have to go up to him talk to him and tell him how you feel its hard it is so it might take a while for you to understand that u love him but when you do tell him tell him everything and if he loves you back then he will tell you how he feels and if you guys go out i wish you the best of luck to stay together good luck hoped it helped
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reader, anna*belle +, writes (20 December 2008):
anna*belle is verified as being by the original poster of the question About a week or two after the break up I tried to tell him, but he rejected me, because he was afraid of getting hurt again (though at the same time he told me he still had feelings for me). But our mutual friends says that he always seem depressed when they talk/write with him, and I see him looking at me too. I'm not sure I can risk telling him how I feel, if he's still hasn't overcome his fear of getting hurt by me.
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reader, voodoo3182  +, writes (20 December 2008):
He is probably thinking the same as you. I wouldnt leave it too long, because regret is the worst thing! If you really love him, tell him how you feel before its too late.
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