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writes:Me and a guy i know were messing around earlier yesterday and ending up "doing things". I was a virgin until he put his penis inside me. I told him to stop so he did but then he put it back in and we had sex but it was only about a minute because i didnt want it. I didnt feel it when it happened but he popped my cherry. There was a little bit of blood and i was fine up until about 2 hours later. Now im having pain just like im on my period but i just got off of it about a week ago. I was wondering why i might be having the pain. I was thinking maybe because he didnt keep going long enough after he popped it to make the painful sensation go away. Its killing me now. Also he wasnt wearing a condom and didnt cum inside of me but im still a little scared cuz im not on anything. I know its possible to get pregnant by precum. help :)
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (12 September 2010):
the pain is probably from him hitting your cervix because youwerent aroused. when you are aroused your uterus will move out of the way (i know wierd eh) but because you werent he hit your cervix. wether your a virgin or not when this happens it really really hurts. usually it happens during doggy or when your legs are over your head. the pain can last up to 2 days afterwards and can even stop/bring on your period when this happens.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 September 2010):
 To cure those back pains put a heating pad on your back and take some Aleeve back and body pain.
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reader, Paigeykins +, writes (3 September 2010):
Paigeykins is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks a lot for your comments. After a bit of thinking i went ahead & picked up the Plan B pill from the pharmacist at walgreens. I was nervous about asking but just went for it & the lady was great. The pill is effective 72 hours after having the sex so i was just in time. I took it about 3:30pm which is just a little over 24 hours from the actual sex. I feel a little better & I really thank you guys for replying. I still have a little pain in my lover back & hips but I took a nap after the pill & its better. Thanks again :) add whatever else you have to say.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 September 2010):
Actually, my first time was just like yours..I made him stop it hurt so bad and I was sore the rest of the week..Sex didn't start to feel good until after the third week of having it. It may have to do with your boyfriend's size as well. Give it some time don't do it again until you stop feeling sore. If you're going to be sexually active then he needs to start wearing protection and you need to get on birth control asap. Now, the pains are normal but if you're still scared then I would wait till you miss a period or it's 7 days late and you do nothing but spot a few days to take a pregnancy test.
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reader, youngmum89  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 you should of went to get the morning after pill i hope your not pregnant after that i no it wasn't proper but you can still get pregnant even if it was only in for 1 min
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