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writes:is going back for this girl a good idea?this girl she is a lesbian.more lesbian than i am.Im 90% lesbian and 10% into guys.shes 100% lesbian.i hated this girl at 1st.i notice her staring at me a few times when i wasn't looking.she would pass me note asking questions about me.then she asked me if i was interested in girls.i told her yes then that when she passed me even more notes.she would wave at me when she passed me in the halls.there was a day when i was upset.she got worried and thought i was mad at her.i wasn't i had a fight with my mother that day so it ruined the rest of my day.we got into an argument and kept our distance for a while.after a month i notice her looking at me a few times.i wasn't into her at the time but i got a my feeling she liked me but didn't pay to much attention to it till i moved.the school i go to now i hate.nobody at this school likes me.i started fight with her online.i said a lot of mean things to her.i was mad that she cut her hair.she deleted me and blocked me.i realized then how stupid i was cus i liked her but i didn't even notice cus i didn't pay attention to the butterflies i had for her.i made a new myspace and apologized to her.she listen and accepted my friend request on there. she told me she hated me and didn't want me talking to her.well for someone who hated me so much couldn't stop talking to me.she would stop talking when i ignored her last question every time.but now i have stronger crush on her.she dating girl now but this girl lives 4 hours away from her and doesn't go to her school.i never believed long distance dating works or last.i get the feeling to resolved the issue with her is to see her in person.i like this girl a lot.more than Ive liked anyone before even more then some of the girls Ive liked at the school im going to now.do i still have a chance with her?should i go back to her school?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): From my experiences, it's normal for gay men or lesbian women to choose what type of guy or girls he/she likes. Take it this way, your lesbian and that your not interested with this girl you meet. It's normal because the principle apply to the straight reltionship.Like you mention it, you hate her when she stared at you. Maybe she's not your type and you feel iritated by her. What i would like you to do is to give some space for yourself and let her out of your live onces a while. Refresh yourself in your new school envirnment.All the best.
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