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writes:ok weird question but here goes. ive met this guy online.we are meeting up in person in one month becuz he is out of state until then due to work.he realllllyyy has this thing for chubby women.i weigh around 158lbs and am 5'6 in height.hes attracted to me as i am now,i already am a little chubby and have a pear shape but he hints that id look great with 15 more pounds on me! im really confused here.i mean i can undrstand liking women with a little meat on them,but with extra meat comes cellulite and things like that.can someone really be attracted to this? ive never known anyone like that and im just curious if its the softer look that they like or if its the whole package that comes with a chubby girl. to me i dont mind gaining some weight if im in a long term relationship and the guy likes it.but what happens when you get cellulite along with it? surely he knows that other things come along with extra weight...to me cellulite is unattractive and i already have some as it is.im wondering in general,is cellulite not a big deal to men who prefer chubby women? its kind of too weird of a question for me to ask personally...but it kinda goes along with chubbyness.and i hate cellulite
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008): Things like this are all about preference. Its easy for me to answer this question because I love BBW. My wife is one and I love every pound of her. As far as the cellulite, I don't think it is the cellulite in itself. BBW lovers of course are aware and know it is there, but thats isnt the sole purpose of liking Big women. Its the whole package that I like personally. I love the cellulite, even though my wife doesnt, although she wants to lose a few pounds because she used to be skinny before the child, but I would never ask her to intentionally gain weight for my preferences. If you have a pear shape and are 5'6 158 you are just perfect how you are for a BBW lover and he should accept you just as you are. But to answer your question, cellulite usually doesnt have a NEGATIVE impact for BBW lovers only, as opposed to a man that likes chubby girls but doesnt want them to be too overweight "looking".
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