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writes:we had out skool prom...everione was dancin with their partener...i was stood alone...why dont guys like me...wats to bad about me...jus cos im not skinny...people always look down on me and turn their noses up at me...i am 16..i have neve had a boyfriend...neve even had my first kiss...people dont even get to know me they jus judge me and say err...what can i doo!!!...anyone...xx... y dnt guys like me...i see cute boys they just dont look bak... Reply to this Question
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 Congratulations to getting a date!! =) I'm happy for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007): hi i am the writer of this question thankyou for you r answers but today i got asked out!! and i am soo hapy because he likes me for who i am and i lke him. i know i am bigger than some girls ((size 14/16)) but i can do it and i did!!! i am soooo happy thanks again!!!!!! xxxx :):)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): Don't be so down on yourself. If you don't act like you like others, then people won't speak to you. Show a smile, be a happy person to be around, and people will respond to you, your weight has little to do with it.
That said, there is no reason to be overweight as a kid. You probably don't play outside enough, ever work out, and I can tell you are an emotional eater. I bet your mom comforted you with food when you were little. Put a picture on your fridge of a thinner girl (even one of you) in a bathing suit, and when you walk to the fridge or the pantry to amuse yourself with food, shut the door and occupy your mind with something else.
Keep a journal and write your emotions instead of eating them, and in time if you get some excercise cut calories you will soon be much thinner and healthier.
I am sure you are a lovely person, and like all of the rest of us needs some self improvement.
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reader, loretta +, writes (13 May 2007):
 i went thro all this,it hurt me so much i used to cry everyday, i was so big, at the age ov 13 i was i size 16. my face was so fat u couldn't c wot i looked like, i never ad a boyfriend at school, i was well known, only coz people thought i could look after myself coz ov my size, i had lots ov friends but the lads would all call me names, which makes me laugh now!
u heard the story the ugly duckling? i am now 22, im fightin the men off now, including the guys that hurt me so much.
if i c them on a nite out, they cant belive its me,fact is it is an always has been.
i went on no diets, no exercise no nothing an i am now a swann, lol. i am a size 10-12 an feel great, id love to go bk to school lookin like i do now, wot im trying to say is as u mature u will change for the better, we all do when were younger.the ugly ducklin at school always turns out 2 be best, an belive me, i love knockin them all bk, every dog has its day babe, u just need to enjoy ur life, 4get about lads 4 now an enjoy urself,you'll know wot i mean in a few years time when i talk about ugly duckling, u will age like a fine wine, u are who u are, be happy xxxx
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reader, dragonette +, writes (13 May 2007):
I know where you're coming from. I was 19 when I first kissed someone. At 16 having a boyfriend may feel like the most important thing in the world, but trust me, it isn't. There's so many other things you could do instead of spending all your time trying to find a boyfriend.
You should enjoy life, work with hobbies that you're interested in, spend time with your friends. This will build up your self esteem.
Nobody wants to be with a girl who doesn't love herself, who feels bad about not being thin and who thinks the world is totally ignoring her. But a girl who has her own interests, who doesn't take crap from anyone and enjoys every second of life is so much more interesting.
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