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writes:Do women who enjoy having sex and have a vibrator enjoy using it???If you do, Do you get a quicker 'Orgasm than with your partner?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): Wow. And you girls all must wonder why men are so insecure. It's because we are lead to believe a machine can take our places the second they learn how to fix a leaking tap.
I am of the opinion that marital aids, such as porn and vibrators, only be used in the absence of partners and to keep sexual desires in a state of check and should NEVER, EVER be used in order to achieve and orgasm that you and your partner should be working on achieving without help.
Try actually talking to your men for once and telling us what you like instead of expecting us all to be psychic sybian machines.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGreat answers. I use a vibrator it can give a very powerful orgasm, which I don't often get from my partner.
Ok this only now and then, when I want some me time. A quick release can get read of stress. I don't you have to have full on sex all the time. Most women live in self denial. Most women would never dream of telling their partner that a vibrator can give you powerful 'O'.
Plenty of women out there would never tell any one that own a vibrator/dildo.
I love my vibrator
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 I use a vibrator, and guy's don't make me orgasm at all. So basically there is no comparison. There's only been one guy ever who made me come without me including any vibrators or doing anything, and the orgasms there were good. But it took forever to get there, and only happened a few times. So, all in all, there is no comparison. Either I get an orgasm by myself through masturbating with a vibrator, or I don't get one at all.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Yes, I use one as the orgasm is so quick. Sex with partner is great but has always taken time to orgasm.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Well it depends. An orgasm with my partner is ALWAYS more satisfying than one alone. I can orgasm from penetration alone some of the time, but a lot of the time I can't get there without a bit of assistance from the vibrator. The orgasms don't feel as good with it since I don't have the mental stimulation of getting there with my partner, but it is really nice to have as a way to sort of level the playing field. That way I don't have to work 10x as hard to have an orgasm as my partner. So yes, it's much much much much faster and easier than an orgasm with my partner, and usually it's the only way I can orgasm, but if I was given the choice I'd take an orgasm from sex any day.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (20 June 2011):
 I use a vibrator because I dont orgasm with my partner. I use it on my clitoris and that brings be to orgasm. I dont blame this on my partner because I have never been able to have a penatrive orgasm.
I love my vibrator, If I didnt have one then I would never orgasm!
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