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anonymous
writes:No woman has been able to make me orgasm when giving a blow job?Don't get me wrong I have had some real real good ones but not the orgasm.Women get really frustrated when they cannot make me orgasm. The funny thing is I have now met a woman who has the same issue.We both have been able to make our previous partners orgasm but now we cant make each other!Intercoarse is fine the problem is hands and oral.Any ideas!
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (12 March 2009):
 Number one, you can always stick with intercourse...do what works for you! And find out what works for your partner, and help her do what works for her!
Another way to approach it is to agree to get together on a regular basis to pleasure each other without the goal of orgasm. Just be open to finding out what each of you enjoys the most. I bet this would create an intimate atmosphere that would be awesome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): I think the issue may be that you have both felt guilty previously due to not being able to orgasm and thus "letting down" the other person.. though you may not have realised how you felt.
Another thing is, not EVERYBODY orgasms through the same thing, and an orgasm shouldn't be the ultimate "goal" to aim for. If you enjoy intercourse, then great, you're one step there.
When you do start foreplay, I'd personally suggest maybe not going for complete oral or manual intercourse, as in, aiming for an orgasm.. but rather swap and change. Try little bits of everything you both enjoy, and you might find that if you don't focus on reaching orgasm.. you could both eventually reach it.
Another thing is to simply relax. Pressure can do strange things to our bodies, and it's more obvious during sex.
Hope this helps.
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