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writes:I Like this guy, alot. but im not sure if he likes me. we've been best mates for a long time and we do flirt a little bit. My best friend told me that she also likes him but i havnt told her how i feel. he told me he doesnt like her and recently a girl who he'd been rly gd friends with for almost all his life asked him out and he said no, he told me it was because he couldnt imagine them being any more than best friends. He makes me laugh and i make him laugh too, i really like him but im not sure how he feels about me. He's pretty shy around most people, exept me and our other friends and i think he's too shy to ask anyone out himself He's been single for a long time after his gf moved away and they split up. but hes well over her now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionomg shes been pissing me off way too much, i think she does it for the attention, ide spent all day shopping in town and me and her had already agreed beforehand that we would do a joint bday pressie because its his 13th on tuesday and that she was going to buy it and we'de split half and half costs. When i got home at like 8pm i phoned her and asked her if she'd got it and she said yes but its only going to be from her. i am unbelievably pissed off and i think she's doing it because shes jelous of our friendship even though she is quite good mates with him too. also i dont think he'd get the idea, he isnt the brightest and hes veryy immature lol
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reader, SlackersACE1  +, writes (14 March 2009):
Now I think you might just wanna talk to your man/best buddy, or whatever you think he should be classified as. Maybe you don't have to blurt everything out at once, just tell him you feel uncomfortable. He'll listen, but he might not entirely pick up on the idea that you like him (Most boys his age can be terribly dense and even unsure of themselves.) Then take it nice and slow from there. It might even help you ask him out. Just don't dig too deep into anything, it complicates things severely, and at (What, 13, 14?, Heck even at 22) you don't need all that drama.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni cant stand watching her try to flirt with him, he hasnt told her to back off even though he isnt interested and it makes me jelous thinking that shes with him :S its got to the point when i dont even want to be her best friend anymore. is this normal? help :S
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 March 2009):
 It's definitely a risk. You have to have courage, if you're going to do it! How bad will you feel if you never find out? Weigh that against how bad you will feel if he's not interested in being more than friends. Remember that the way you ask--keeping it lighthearted and giving him and yourself an out--will impact how easy or hard it is to go on being friends afterward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyh, were going to the cinemar for his birthday next week, but with a couple of other frnds too, including my best mate who also fancies him D:, im scared of persuing things romanticly incase i lose him as a friend, i still dk wt 2 do
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (12 March 2009):
Ask him out on a date. Say, come to me with a movie, but not just as a friend. It's risky, but then you'll know if it's a possibility. And if he says he doesn't want to pursue that possibility, then you can still save face by saying "Okay! That's fine!" and continuing to hang out with him as a friend.
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reader, SlackersACE1 +, writes (12 March 2009):
Now might be your chance. Worst he can say is "No". Tell him how you feel. Even if he says no, if your straight with your buddy here, he'll at least be sensitive about how you feel, especially around girls. And if he says yes, your golden. Either way you don't have to rush right into a relationship. Maybe you two can go on a date or two and ttake it from there eh? Good luck to you lil sis. Stay cool and think smart.
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