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*harliesdad2012
writes:I started talking to someone and we have a lot in common. We decided to meet up to see if we like each other in person. It went great we instantly gelled, few hugs and we even held hands. She even said she really likes me. She's going through some issues which came to a head Wednesday. I told her that I'm here for her. Since thursday everything came to a full stop. Not even a message from her. Not even an explanation of why she wants to stop talking and seeing me. Any advice of why this could be? Reply to this Question
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reader, charliesdad2012 +, writes (5 May 2015):
charliesdad2012 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand what both answers are saying its just hard to be kept in limbo
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 May 2015):
 Could be anything.
The important thing here is whether you will see her again or not. Wait to see if SHE calls you again. If she doesn't, then the reason why won't matter at all.
In the meantime, don't agonize over why she's doing that. It's usually a futile exercise. Have fun, instead.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 May 2015):
 I am guessing the only issue that stops her from talking to you is that she's still hung up on her ex, or she's not really single as you think. Or she could be more specific about what issues they are, such as family so you don't have to guess and be left hanging.
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