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writes: I am currently in turmoil about a girl I work with!! She makes me laugh so much and we really get on well. I really like her and my feelings have become very strong over the past few weeks to the point where I am constantly thinking about her all the time and would rather be back at work with her (feelings I've never had before). Thing is I am not sure whether she likes me in the way I hope. She is really friendly to everyone she meets and I start to get jealous when she spends too much time with someone else but have to bite my tongue not to say anything. I am tempted to tell her how I feel but don't want to make my work situation awkward. If she does like me then it could be hard working and being together all the time and on the other hand if she doesn't feel the same way then working right next to her could also become very difficult. I don't want to screw things up but cannot fight the feelings I am having anymore - jeez I am even writing all this on some website!! Any advice?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Kathy, writes (3 February 2005): Life is too short to hold back! It would be better to know how she feels then to suffer in silence! Test the water and invite her out for a drink, with work friends if it is easier and build up the friendship out side of work. If all goes well you can meet alone and seize the moment! If she is only interested in a friendship this is better than nothing! ...you never know what happens over time!
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