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writes:i don't know what is wrong with me. in the last 10 years (i'm 30 now) I have not had 1 serious relationship. I have had 10 "girlfriends" and I've been nice to them, I've listened to them when talking, I've done everything that a respectable boyfriend should do (give them space at the beginning and try and move it on afterwards) but they always break up with me. The longest relationship I have had has been 1 month long. I have had time to myself and I like it and now I'm trying to have a serious relationship and I'm failing. Can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Perhaps you have not met the right one yet. Where are you meeting this women?
It might be a good idea to get some feedback as to why they break up with you.
If you are conscious of the fact that your relationships do not last long, are you trying to hard? or maybe you are sending off desperate vibes.
Agree with Inlove001, maybe you are moving in to quickly, different people move at different pace.
Do not give yourself a hard time about this as the Right one will come along.
Good luck xxx
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reader, InLove001 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Hey, I think you are having short relationships because you might be pushing foward a little too quickly? maybe try and hold yourself for a while until they are definately ready for yooh. Hope things work out for yooh.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Do you have any personal issues, like body odour, bad teeth or smelly breath? I only ask this because some people find it difficult to confront people with these issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): If the women you are dating break up with you in one month then you are choosing the wrong type of woman, maybe you go out with only vey young women who change their boyfriends as often as they change their underwear, or maybe you only like party girls who do the same thing.
Try maybe dating a different type of girl, one who is more mature and stable and into her career and not actively looking for a boyfriend in the bar scene. Look for her at church, take a class, join a club, go to the bookstore, meet her at the grocery store or try some on-line dating services that use matching type profiles to help find a better fit for you....because you sound like you are a nice guy, you just haven't found the one, so welcome to dating.
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