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writes:I've been in love with my doc and we have become frineds over the last 6 months. He's called me a few times and I see him out and about sometimes. I've known him for 8 years. We are both married, but I think he wants something more and I know I do. He comments about getting together, but we never have. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 First of all, you're not "friends". That is not the definition of a friend. A buddy,pal,friend etc would hope for the best for you, your family and your marriage. (and visa versa) You seem to be two people acting like teenagers hoping to exchange body fluids. You're at the point where you're convincing yourselves it's OK to walk in the gray area because you haven't actually had sex. The issue is you "want" to have sex. That is what makes it something other than a "friendship".
So, as for your question. You should muster up some integrity and mind your business. Focus on your husband and hope he never finds out you've been mentally cheating on him. Having a desire is one thing but plotting and scheming is another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): Of course the fact you are married should have ruled out any possibility of anything at all happening.
Sadly marriage isn't worth the paper its written on these days.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): Well if you are serious about it, get a new Doctor and wait until you are no longer he patient.
That way, there are no legal or moral issues. And you two can date until the cows come home.
That said, there are plenty of Doctors and Patients who have had loving relationships... its just they aren't dumbe enough to tell anyone about it.
Flynn 24
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 if your doctor has a relationship with you he will have his license taken away by the american medical association and will not be allowed to practice medicine again.
SO stay away, and get a new doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): This sounds as if the both of you are very immature and self centered. First, a doctor should never have a non business relationship with a patient, he could be punished by the board.
Your both married, and apparently your loins are more important then the oath you took with your partner. Very shameful.
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