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writes:We've been very good friends since our childhood.These days I hardly get the opportunity to meet her as we both are busy with our jobs,but that really didn't affect our friendship.I love her from the bottom of my heart,but I could never express my feelings in the fear of loosing her and her friendship.Whenever we meet,she always wants to be with me and we talk a lot over various stuff.She also wishes if we could meet more often.When we're apart, she sends me text messages to keep in touch. Sometimes I tried to flirt her by sending romantic messages and she sent sweet friendship texts in reply.Occasionally when we talked about our views on love in general and how she 'got rid of' the guys who had proposed her,I noticed that she is a bit conservative about relationships.Our families are also very close to each other and they see us as 'brother and sister'.So now if I go and tell her,it might sound like a betrayal from her childhood friend and our friendship will be ruined forever.So please help me. I simply cannot lose her...........
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): Mate im going through the exsact same thing its killing me iv known her for 15 yrs of my life she has always been my best friend and all my friends have tried hooking up with her and i cant bear the thought of loseing her to someone else i want to tell her i love her but if i was to lose her as a friend my world would simply crumble i live for the weekend to be with her i text her through the week organising what we are going to do but i simply cant go any further she says im her last true Friend and i dont want to be like the others i will stand by here side as a friend until it kills me...Follow your heart its the best thing you got going for you
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 January 2008):
 If she says that she wishes that you could meet more often, and isn't replying "EEeewwhhh" or joking about your romantic messages, I think it's very possible that she may like you too.
If you are worried and don't want to lose her friendship, but need to find out if she might like you - the next time that you make plans to go out, show up with a single red rose. You have to read her very carefully when she sees it, but I'm sure that she will probably let you know in some way once she sees that red rose. If she blushes or is at a loss for words, but still smiles, it's a good sign. At least the door will be open a bit wider for a possible conversation! She sounds lovely, and she's a lucky girl! Best of Luck, Dear. Be brave - "Faint Heart never won Fair Maiden"!
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