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writes:Hi everyone, I have been really attracted to my house mate for months and have fallen head over heels in love with him. At times I feel like he has feelings for me, but then I think I might be imagining it. We have a great laugh together and share similar interests. I really think that we could be great together. I have no confidence with men and am a nervous wreck at the thought of speaking to him about it. The major problem is, I am moving out of our flat in two days! I am worried that if I don’t act soon I will regret it for the rest of my life. But if he does not feel the same, I will ruin our friendship. My heart is aching at the thought of leaving him and I have cried myself to sleep for the last few nights. Can anybody help me? What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Well, if you feel comfortable enough, maybe you should just bite the bullet and let him know you want to start dating him! Maybe he'll be open to it, especially since you say you both have similar interests and can share a laugh together.......I'd say go for it, but try nto to come across as overanxious or desperate - easier said than done, I know......!
See what he says. Even if he says no, then at least you'll know you had the guts to speak up, and you tried........good luck!
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reader, lovelife1437  +, writes (18 December 2009):
It's going to be hard to maintain a platonic friendship if you're head over heels in love with him. So you might as well let him know how you feel but not now. Communication between you and him will help you realize if this is going to work but not now. Tell him a while later after you've moved out and see if you still have the same feeling and it wasn't because you lived together and got attached to him. Keep the distance and recollect your thoughts if you think it's hard to be just friends and see what your real feelings are because love shouldn't have a due date just because you're moving out in two days. Good Luck! :-)
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