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writes: I am i love with a woman but she is going to marry her bloke, why can't i except this and why do i feel like someone has died? Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Hi Ondo
You probably can't except this because this girl/woman was and still is very special to you. But if she has chosen someone else over you there's not a lot you can do. Be there for her, be supportive and show her you care.
You feel like someone has died because you have lost this woman/girl and it feels like she's died because she's not in your life the way she probably used to be. But don't worry, she'll come around. If she does marry this other guy, stay a close family friend. Who knows, it could actually work out better for you than you planned!
Good Luck and All The Best for the Future -
your someone is out there1
- Phoebe xxx
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reader, shania +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Im afraid there is nothing you can do,she has chosen the man she wants to marry and you will have to accept that.Wouldn't life be wonderful if we could choose who we want to be with...and they felt the same,but im afraid life isn't like that.You are heartbroken and distraught and yes it does feel like a bereavement but in time it will pass,try and keep busy,surround yourself with people who care about you,i know you probably dont feel like doing that now but take one day at a time and you will heal...trust me...iv been there.
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