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writes:So I became friends with an older women and I'm 19 and she is 49 and after being friends for a little over a year she asked me if I would ever consider w having a more romantic relationship. I said ok. Well we began to fall for each other earlier on. But I realize its a 30 year difference and that could be a problem I know all the down sides. I know all the upsides. But I don't know what to because I love her and she loves me. But she will have to give up her current life. Her husband, her kids and dissappoint ment. I love her and want to be w her. But I know its not a good idea cuz ill be 50 and she will be 80. I just need some advise what's best for her and what is best for me? Reply to this Question
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reader, emilia_shayner +, writes (4 July 2010):
I think this woman mite be going thru a midlife crisis and most likely doesnt love u...my mother is 35 and was dating a 21 yr old. I knw it isnt quite as big of an age difference but still. My parents had been married for 15 years and they have me and my two sisters. She always talked about leaving my dad for this guy but turns out she was having sex with three other guys on top of this other guy. My mother talked this guy into going into the army and he now regrets it. I think that the best solution wud be leave things as they are or break up. I say break up bc if she loved u so much she wud have already left him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): This looks like a familiar post but anyway...
All I can tell you is if you love her then let her go. For your sake and her's let the whole thing go. As much as you love her you'll regret it in the long term trust me. It will be very hard for you but be strong.
NightFairy
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