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*anniele0161
writes:right iv been seeing a guy for 9 months on and off. but he told me weeks ago im the girl he loves and wants to be with. BUT he has a really bad reputation hes got 2 kids to two different mothers. i hear hes a womanizer, cheat, liar and caught lots of dieses. but in my heart i feel i love him to. and he has never tried havin sex with me in all theese 9 months and iv met all his family. he always txt and rings me and wants to see me.. however i am scared of getting hurt..he said he will never hurt me but what should i do? please give me answers
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reader, 48years  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 The only place I've seen a man change for love of a woman is on television...I'm sorry to say it, but guys who are that loveable are professinals at it. He's also seen and heard every trick in the book and will anticipate your moves. Love is a game in reality.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 I think you would be incredibly stupid to trust this man. But that is your choise. Lots of women have been in your position and feel that the man has changed their ways out of the great love they feel. Then soon enough he is a man with 3 children by 3 differant women and you have are alone with a child and a disease to boot.
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (13 November 2008):
 give him a chance if he likes you he won't hurt you, i know you might get your heart broken but if you don't go for it you will always be wondering what if? so what if he has a bad reputation he's never treated you bad right? any woman can change a man if he wants her enough to want to change himself.
hearts can break but they can be mended and him introducing you to his family is always a good sign
hope this helped
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 you shouls trust him. i know it can sound like another lie, but he can actually love you. and you love him. give him the benefit of the doubt. but stay alerted, to any possible rumors or strange things
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Trust me please, it is really rare for an adult to change their basic behavior patterns once they are established. He may seem like a perfect gentlemen but that is one of the "tricks of the trade". He won't mean to hurt you but it is almost certain that he will.
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