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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm in love with a female teacher at my school. I kno I can never be with her, I've accepted that, but it doesn't change anything. I'm finding it impossible to move on.I spend every moment of my day thinking about her, and ways to bump into her, impress her etc.As a result my grades have dropped, but I still can't stop thinking about her. I used to be a perfect student, my grades shot super-high in all subjects when I had her for english, because I was permanently happy. Now I only see her about three times a week and I can feel myself sinking into depression.I really can't talk to anyone, because for ages my friends said I fancied her (they had no idea they were right) and I denied it.How can I move on? I don't have the slightest feelings for anyone else?Could it possibly mean I'm gay?How do I stop centering my life around her???
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do spend a lot of time hanging out with my friends, but I can't stop my mind from drifting.
I do talk to and hang out with boys, but I just see them as friends, I never feel anything even mildly stronger.
I dream about her almost every night, and every song I hear, every book I read reminds me of her!
Argh! This is impossible!
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reader, mia1525  +, writes (22 January 2009):
I totally understand what you're going through.Seriously, try to make a point of hanging out with friends and seeing other boys. Try to find a guy or girl (your age) that you like. Make an effort.Just try keeping your mind off her.I know it's hard. Trust me. But believe me, you will get over this eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): I know exactly what you mean. I fancy a teacher in my school and when i had her my english grades were great. im still doing good in subjects because she gets impressed when i do well. you don't have to move on, but must realise that she will most probably want you to do well in your life. you may be gay however all teenagers go through a stage when they are attracted to a member of the opposite sex. i only know im bi because i fancy other guys and girls although my life does centre around his teacher. there will be a point when you realise you can love them without having to see them 24/7. hope i helped xx
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