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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok i no this is going to sound weird but i go to this store and there is this 27 year old guy that works there and he is sooooo nice to me we talk all the time and he is just the most coolst guy in the world. well at first when i started going there things were cool like i had no feelings then as i went in there more often i started getting this weird feeling in my stomach and i new they werre butterflys. i just tryed to egnore them and i kept going in there. it got worse. i started haveing dreams of me being with him and me doing stuff with him. well one night i couldnt take it anymore and as we were texting on the phone i asked him if i could tell him something and if i told him if he would get mad he said never and i could tell him anything. well i told him i liked him and he texted back saying well i like u to i was all happy then i said well do u no what i mean and he said kinda and i said like well. like like n he said O n i got sad i told him i couldnt stand to see him anmore he got sad i did to but i asked if we could still text he said everyday. well itz been a month n i started going in there cuz i thought that the feelings went away but they didnt i just need to no what to do i love this guy and i no u guys are going to say that he is to old and that itz nasty but i didnt come here to get put down i came here to get help. i need to no what to do about this guy that im in love with but no nothing can ever happen between us but thees feelings are takeing over me and my life. help please
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 February 2009):
 I'm going to tell you the truth so don't shoot the messenger...this is a crush, girl's and guys your age get them like in epidemic proportions. It can be on a teacher, actor, performer the person varies but the main factor doesn't...the person they focus on is way older and unattainable. Try to stay away from him, stop texting him, keep busy and soon your crush will fade like the shadows on a bright sunny morning. Everyone goes through it, it's part of growing up.
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reader, momo4eva77 +, writes (2 February 2009):
personally if the guy liked you back i would understand you falling for him but he duznt like u. but if he did like you i wud tell u that u shud go after him cuz age duznt matter wen ur in love but u both arnt so i say 4get bout him. find sum1 that loves u nd u like them bak too. good luck!!! :)
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 Stop texting him, do not chase him, he is 27, I would be terrified if a teenage girl sent a messages like that to me. It is seriously dangerous for a girl of your age to chase older guys, at that age he is much more experienced than you and will not after the same thing from a relationship.
I would advise you to stay clear from him and find a guy your own age. Getting involved with a guy that much older than you can end up with him in PRISON and you with a broken heart!
Good Luck
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