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writes: my boyfriend just told me that his dad raped his brother and sister and went to jail. but left porn magazines round the house while my bf was young. my boyfriend experimented because he didnt know wat it was....with other boys. he told me that he loves me but sometimes he thinks of other men. how can i stop images in my head of him and other men? its starting to get me down x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006): 1. dont worry about it, dont become paranoid
2. move on with your relationship
3. if you still have the thoughts end it, as you will never get over it
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006): You have to realise that what happened was not his fault at all, sometimes we do things cos we do not understand that its bad, i'm sure he wouldnt experiment with guys now but because he had done it in the past, i'm sure the memories just come at him, not that he will willingly hurt you at all. You have to try and talk to him about how you're feeling and after this, if you still cannot stand being with him, then i suggest you leave him so that no ne is holding anyone back.
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