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writes:SORRY ITS LONGMy girlfriend has been away from me for a month. I tell you those first few weeks were rough. She didn't call me, she hardly talked when we were on the phone. Minimum time on the phone was about 5 min. I confronted her about it and she started to change but recently she's fallen back into her habit.She told me she couldn't talk because she was busy with her friends who she probably won't see for a long time, I understood that but the day is long and at least one text message or phone call isn't that hard to ask right??We're in love and have been dating for almost a year now, Shes told me in the past that shes cheated on some of her boyfriends and I'm fighting myself to trust her, I don't think she would but there is just that part of me that keeps thinking she is.Right now her actions are speaking louder than her words, so what should I do about it. Try to forget about it and stop worrying, or should I think the worst???
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (13 January 2007):
 Actions do speak louder than words. Her actions are telling you that you aren't that important to her. If I were you, I would try to forget about it, and her. Two can play the "I'm too busy" game. You need to get busy finding someone else to get busy with!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): You know man, this is really really hard. An Ex girlfriend of mine was really similar except rather than date guys she would "Deal" with them.
Although at present and for the past while I haven't cared, I remember when it used to drive me nuts when her actions spoke louder than words. Although our situations are different but are still similar in what I stated above.
I strongly suggest you confront her about this in a real polite manner and tell her that the distance and her actions speaking louder than her words is troubling you.
Then depending how it goes if it keeps up break it up with her because she seems (in my opinion) the type of girl who would break up with you for a lame reason. I realise you're in love, I was to.
Good luck mate.
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