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writes: Im in a relashonship with a 1year old child, I do love my partner and were not married yet. He is a wonderful man and were just buying a house togeather. there is amn at work who is younger than me and well we have alot in commen and im worried about the feelings i am getting for him. I dont know what to do as im having feelings for two people now, please help.
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reader, Ms. Tanya +, writes (5 September 2006):
Being in love with 2 people is a tough one. You have 2 choices, Pick one and Chest on him (However thats wicked and I strongly dis agree with it) Or pick one and forget about the other. From the info I have I would say stick with the man you've been with and are buying a house with, you KNOW he loves you, however if you were to break up with him and go for this guy at work and then discovered this guy at work has apsoloutly no interest in you, now that would suck. No guy is much worse then letting one go for another one.
Ultimatly though, go on your gut feeling, pick the one you think works best for you, and don't settle for 2nd best.
Good luck hon
~Ms. Tanya
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