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*urrows2207
writes:I've been with my partner for over two years now, and we are totally in love with each other. The other week I met up with a friend from college and we ended up kissing, not for long though. I can't stop thinking about the moment that we had and I'm afraid that I'm catching feelings for them. What do I do?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 September 2016):
 I agree with N91.
If you are OH SO in love with your partner I don't see how this kiss could have happened. It's not like you fell and tripped and your lips met. So take some responsibility there.
And yes, I DO think you should OWN up to what you did to your BF.
And I think if you feel like you can't control yourself around this "friend" it might be better to NOT be around him.
Also... him calling himself your friend is kind of shitty to then kiss you. Because he KNOWS you have a BF. That is him being selfish.
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reader, N91 +, writes (15 September 2016):
 If you're 'totally in love' then why did you kiss someone else? That's not the behaviour of someone who is in love, especially not with you telling us you may be catching feelings for this 'friend'.
I think you should own up to your boyfriend so that he can decide whether he wants to stay with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2016): cant just 'end up' kissing. desicions are being made that you made you kiss him, you decided to kiss him. Own your actions. Leave your boyfriend and pursue this guy. Or just confess and own up that you made a mistake. but stop saying you ended up.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 September 2016):
 If you have kissed your friend then that means you have cheated on your boyfriend and he deserves to know the truth. Be honest to him about what happened, as if you lie and get caught he may spend the rest of his life not being able to trust women.
If you think you might have feelings for your friend, then maybe the relationship you are in at the moment has ran its course, maybe you need to be single for a while to figure out who it is you want. You are quite young so don't be scared to be alone for a while until you figure out who it is you want to be with. If you distance yourself you might see a clearer picture.
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